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Why was Christ’s birthplace changed to Bethlehem, although there is only scant historical evidence for this loca- tion? Why do couples need help more often when they know each other well? Martin Koschorke’s books cover a broad spectrum of topics, ranging from a new interpretation of the Christmas story to pointers on dealing with the annoyanc- es of daily life to advice on solving prob- lems in relationships. “He likes things to be chaotic, she prefers order. She wants to go out on the town, he’d rather stay at home,” writes Koschorke. When we are in love, we tend to overlook our partner’s ­shortcomings, but what seemed so ­interesting in the beginning can turn out to be a big annoyance in daily life. But all attempts to change our partner are in vain. Rather, the only principle one should abide by is: “Accept your partner as he or she is.” Koschorke doesn’t engage in mind games. He argues historically and ­scientifically. With his appealing titles, humorous digressions, and ironic ­cartoons, the theologian and sociologist proves that self-help books can offer a healthy mix of seriousness and humor just like novels can. Rosa-Maria Gschwendtner “Don’t Try to Change Your Partner” Martin Koschorke studied sociology and statistics at the University of Freiburg and theology, philosophy, and psycho­ logy in Berlin, Heidelberg, Bonn, Paris, and Cambridge. He completed training courses in several forms of therapy and has worked as a marriage counselor, a family therapist, and a supervisor. He makes use of his experiences as an ­author – and his latest book, Wie Sie mit Ihrem Partner glücklich werden, ohne ihn zu ändern! Führerschein für Paare, a book for couples that argues that peo- ple should not try to change their part- ner, has made him known to a broad public in Germany. Photo:private ALUMNI ABROAD: JEFFREY HIMMEL Steel Entrepreneur and Club President Jeffrey Himmel still profits today from the “lifelong gifts” he received from the University of Freiburg. In the spirit of the American tradition of giving back, he wants to offer his support to his alma mater. As the president of the Alumni Organization for University of Freiburg in North America, founded in May 2011, he is the main contact for former Freiburg students in the USA. Himmel spent the academic years 1975/76 and 1977/78 at the University of Freiburg within the context of his studies in history, political science, and eco- nomics at Connecticut College, USA. Today he works in the steel industry and owns two steel treatment plants in Ohio and Texas. He is fond of looking back on his studies and the Freiburg way of life: “Freiburg is a special place for stu- dents. Its location, its possibilities, and its professors are of the highest quality and were pivotal in making us into what we are today.” He has good memories of hikes in the Black Forest, outings to Alsace, regional wines and beers, fresh bread from the bakery around the cor- ner, and other culinary specialties. Life- long friendships from this time strengthen his bond to the city. Newsletter, Networking Platform, Mentoring Program The USA Alumni Club offers a regional newsletter, a networking platform, and a mentoring program for students who come to the University of Freiburg to study. All Freiburg alumni in the USA are welcome to participate in the club’s social and cultural activities and con- tinuing education initiatives. Matthias Kuta » www.alumni.uni-freiburg.de/­ alumni_netzwerk BETWEEN THE LINES: MARTIN KOSCHORKE Jeffrey Himmel is a contact for former Freiburg students. Photo: private 16 Alumni Network uni'alumni 2012